“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.”

Including the one with ourselves ⋆ Esther Perel

“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.” Including the one with ourselves ⋆ Esther Perel

Psychosexual & Relationship Counselling

*Talk therapy = no touch involved

I’m a trainee counsellor completing the CICS Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy and am offering sessions as part of my internship/placement.

My approach is rooted in pluralistic therapy, which recognises that no single intervention can meet the unique needs of every individual. I support individuals, couples, and people in diverse relationship constellations in exploring their experiences, relationships, sexuality, and ways of showing up more authentically in life, in a therapeutic space that is warm, empathetic, and honest. My background in mindfulness and embodiment practices offers me a nuanced understanding of mind–body processes, which supports the way I work with clients.

I’m passionate about communication and relationships of all kinds — from the relationship we have with ourselves to the connections we build with partners, lovers, friends, and (chosen) family. In the therapy ‘room’, I foster a space for open exploration, increased self-understanding, and self-compassion. My hope is to support you in developing greater confidence, agency, and authenticity in your relationships and sexuality, and in living more fully in connection with yourself and others.

I can currently support you with:

  • Relationship challenges, communication, and navigating differences in needs, desires, and expectations

  • Understanding relational patterns and attachment dynamics in all types of relationships (not only romantic)

  • Sense of self, low self-esteem

  • Intimacy and sexual concerns

  • Sexual function difficulties, including desire, arousal, orgasm, pain, and performance concerns (AFAB, AMAB, and trans/nonbinary experiences)

  • Gender, sexual, and relationship diversity (GSRD)

  • Queering relationships & sexualities

  • Compulsive sexual behaviours

  • Exploring kink and alternative sexualities

  • Fertility, sexual health, and disability in sexual wellbeing

  • Cultural and neurodiversity considerations

Further considerations:
I am a white, cisgender woman, and I do my best to remain aware of how power, privilege, and societal structures shape both my own perspective and the experiences of my clients. I am committed to offering a trauma-informed, anti-oppressive, GSRD-affirming, and inclusive space for everyone, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or background. I welcome all individual clients and strive to create a safe, affirming, and non-judgmental environment.

Practical information
2025-2026

  • Donation-based

    As a counsellor in training, I offer donation-based, accessible sessions

    Donations can be made here

  • In-Person or Online Sessions

    I provide sessions in person in Berlin or online, whichever suits you best

  • In English and French

    I offer counselling in both English and French, tailored to your needs

  • 1:1 + Intimate Partner Therapy

    I offer Individual 1-o-1 sessions
    and
    Relationship Therapy for couples and all relationship constellations

The space

I offer my in-person sessions in the heart of Neukölln / Schillerkiez at the beautiful Ōsmos Studio

For therapy inquiries with me, please contact Therapiepraxis Hagemeier (or send me an e-mail)